What I learned from Grannie... at least what I remembered today.

There's really probably too many things to list of what Grannie really taught us, but today I'm thinking about a few things that really strike me.

1. I don't have a bunch of "Grannie" stuff in my house, a few small things and some pictures, but I feel like the "stuff" she passed on to us were things you really can't put up on a wall and look at, but things you see in yourself or how you look at the world and treat other people. She didn't really value things, she valued being able to give those things away to those she loved and those whom she wanted to bless. She was truly the essence of generosity. Something David loves to remember is the time my mom visited one evening and Grannie so wanted to give her something she hunted around her kitchen and handed her a tomato and a banana. Such classic, generous Grannie.

2. Sing, sing, sing. Sing when you're happy, sing when you're sad, even if you shed a few tears. And when you're elated, you dance. To Scottish music, preferably.

3. Pilly-wally is always the best kind of tea.

4. Cooking your own food is often more satisfying than having someone cook for you, especially if you work really hard to get it right, and who really needs a recipe... or a knitting pattern, for that matter?

5. "Always remember, you do your best, Hen, and that's all you can do."

6. She gave anything and everything up for her children and grandchildren.

7. Be creative. Love the things those around you love. Tape your grandchildren's favorite TV shows. Help them try to mimic Mr. Dressup's crafts. Build a dollhouse with them out of cardboard. Always be thankful.

8. And, when you plan, always say, "if the Lord spares us..." because it really is up to Him.

9. Pray for your family every night, no matter what. They always need it.

10. Always be surrounded by pictures of those you love, at multiple stages throughout their lives.

11. Always celebrate other people's successes. Be proud of those you love.

12. Never let yourself be bored. Always work with your hands. Hey, knitting might be better for your nerves than Ativan!

13. How you experience something is always up to you. Choose to be positive, and kind. You'll be happier.

I could keep going, but I better go to bed. Goodnight, Grandma Hen's kids. See you in the morning.